Congratulations on your adventure! You’ve made the decision to elope—no big guest list, no complicated wedding planning, just the two of you (and your photographer, of course) celebrating love in the most intimate way possible. It’s thrilling, it’s freeing, and it’s going to be an unforgettable adventure.
But wait—before you pack your bags and start dreaming of beautiful locations in the mountains, there are a few more things to double-check to ensure your elopement day goes off without a hitch.
Here’s my Elopement Day Checklist to help you stay organized, stress-free, and fully present in the moment.
1. Get Your Marriage License
Before you can say “I do,” make sure you’ve applied for and received your marriage license. Each state or country has its own requirements, so make sure you know the specifics well in advance. Some places require a waiting period, while others may have deadlines or specific documents you need to bring. Colorado you can get your marriage license n the same day.
Tip: Check if your destination has special rules for out-of-state or international couples to avoid any surprises!
2. Choose Your Elopement Location
Your mountain elopement location sets the tone for the day. Make sure you’ve picked a spot that reflects your personalities and style and adventure. Don’t forget to check any permits or legal requirements for public spaces or parks.
Tip: Research weather patterns and accessibility to ensure your location is practical, especially if you’re heading to a remote area.
3. Hire a Photographer You Love
While you’re keeping the guest list small, don’t forget about your photographer (and videographer!). You want someone who understands your vision and will help capture the magic of your elopement. Look for a photographer who specializes in intimate weddings or elopements—they’ll know exactly how to create beautiful moments with just the two of you.
Tip: Ask for a portfolio of previous elopement shoots and discuss your vision beforehand to ensure they understand your style and vision.
4. Pack Your Wedding Outfits (Don’t Forget the Details)
You’ll want to look and feel amazing on your big day, so don’t forget to pack your wedding attire—whether it’s a flowing dress, a sleek suit, or something completely unique. Be sure to bring all the accessories you’ll need, such as shoes, rings, and any sentimental items you want to include in your ceremony.
Tip: Pack your wedding outfits in garment bags to prevent wrinkles and keep them looking fresh for your big day.
5. Plan Your Ceremony Details
Your ceremony can be as simple or as elaborate as you want it to be. Will you exchange vows? Do you want a special reading or a meaningful quote? Whether you’re having an officiant or a friend, or self solemize make sure all the details are planned ahead of time. This will help you stay present and relaxed, knowing exactly what will happen when the time comes.
Tip: If you’re eloping in a remote location, it’s worth arranging for a local officiant who knows the area and can offer guidance.
6. Arrange for a Hair and Makeup Artist (or DIY!)
You don’t have to go over the top with hair and makeup, but if you want to feel polished, consider hiring a professional or arranging a hair and makeup session before your elopement. If you’re going for a more relaxed vibe, DIY might be the way to go.
Tip: If you’re doing it yourself, make sure you have all your beauty essentials packed and ready to go.
7. Set Up a Timeline (Even for an Unplugged Day)
Though your elopement day will likely be low-key, it’s still important to create a basic timeline for the day. When will you arrive at your location? When will you exchange vows? Will you be taking a hike beforehand or grabbing coffee afterward? Having a plan in place will help you relax and enjoy the experience, without worrying about the details.
Tip: Don’t forget to include buffer time! Elopements are meant to be flexible and stress-free, so leave room for spontaneity.
8. Pack Your Elopement Day Essentials
Here’s a checklist of essentials to bring: Are you going to be near your car for the most time or are hiking and leaving your car. Keep that in mind.
- Wedding Attire
- Wedding rings
- A bouquet or other wedding day florals
- Vow Booklets (if you’re writing your own)
- A charged phone or camera for photos if you’re doing any DIY documentation/vows
- Any special props you might want for photos (like a blanket, letters from familes, etc.)
- A small touch-up kit for hair/makeup (especially if you’re eloping in nature!)
- Location Permits
- Picnic Basket or Cake/Celebratory Beverage
- Marriage License
- Weather Gear & Backpack
9. Have a Backup Plan for Bad Weather
If you’re eloping outdoors, it’s always wise to plan for the worst! Have an indoor backup location or a Plan B in case of rain or other unexpected weather changes. You don’t want to be caught off guard on your big day.
Tip: Even if you’re outdoors, consider renting a tent or shelter for a contingency plan that still lets you enjoy the scenery.
10. Celebrate the Moment (and Don’t Forget the Champagne!)
Elopements are intimate and personal, but they’re also a moment to celebrate your love! Whether you have a private toast or plan to hit up a local restaurant afterward, or a private chef back at your air bnb make sure to celebrate this new chapter of your life. And yes, champagne (or your favorite drink) is always a good idea!
Tip: Bring a small gift or keepsake to remember the day, like a handwritten letter to each other or a custom wedding ring box or wedding gift exchange.
Final Thoughts
Eloping is a beautiful way to celebrate your love, and with the right preparation, you’ll be able to enjoy every moment stress-free. By following this checklist, you can ensure that your elopement day goes smoothly, allowing you to stay present and soak in the adventure of a lifetime. Remember the is no wrong way to elope and have your adventure!
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