Congratulations! You’ve made the decision to elope—no big guest list, no complicated wedding planning, just the two of you (and your photographer, of course) celebrating love in the most intimate way possible. It’s thrilling, it’s freeing, and it’s going to be an unforgettable adventure.
But wait—before you pack your bags and start dreaming of beautiful locations in the mountains, there are a few more things to double-check to ensure your elopement day goes off without a hitch.
Here’s my Elopement Day Checklist to help you stay organized, stress-free, and fully present in the moment.
1. Finalize Your Elopement Location
You’ve probably chosen a dream destination, but have you confirmed all the details? Check permits (if needed), weather conditions, and any local rules that might apply to elopements. For example, some national parks require special permits for photography or gatherings. Make sure the location is accessible and fits your dream.
Pro Tip: Have a backup location in case of unexpected weather (or permits!) issues.
2. Book Your Officiant
An officiant is a must if you’re getting legally married or if you’re in Colorado you can self solmize the elopement. Double-check your local marriage requirements. You might be eloping in a different state or country, so ensure that the person you’re working with is authorized to perform your ceremony. If you’re eloping overseas, find an officiant who knows the specific legalities of your destination.
3. Confirm Your Photographer & Videographer
You’ve picked your dream photographer, Me (and possibly videographer), but have you confirmed your timeline with them? Go over your schedule, shot list, and any special moments you want captured. Don’t forget to ask about an alternate plan if weather or timing impacts your shoot.
Pro Tip: If you’re eloping in a remote location, ensure your photographer has experience with your chosen destination. It can save a lot of stress on the day of!
4. Pick Out Your Elopement Attire
The outfit is one of the most exciting parts of eloping! But don’t forget to consider comfort and practicality along with style. If you’re hiking up a mountain, you might want a pair of comfy shoes you can change into.
Pro Tip: Break in your shoes beforehand to avoid any blisters!
5. Get Your Marriage License
Depending on where you’re eloping, the requirements for a marriage license can vary. Some places may require you to apply in person or even have a waiting period, while others offer same-day licensing. Be sure to check your destination’s requirements well in advance.
Pro Tip: If you’re eloping in Colorado some county’s let your dog paw print on it! Let’s include them too
6. Arrange Travel & Accommodations
Whether you’re flying to a distant destination or road-tripping to a local spot, don’t forget to make your travel arrangements early. Consider how you’ll get to your elopement location and where you’ll stay before and after. Some venues or destinations may offer package deals that include accommodations, while others might require you to book separately.
7. Pack Your Elopement Day Essentials
You’ll want to pack light but thorough! Here’s a checklist of essentials to bring: https://mollycrossphotography.com/2025/01/19/complete-guide-and-checklist-for-elopement-planning/
8. Plan Your Elopement Day Timeline
Your elopement day is about celebrating your love, so don’t get too caught up in the clock. However, it’s still helpful to have a loose timeline in place. Consider the best lighting for photos, when to exchange vows, and when you’ll have time for any activities or adventures.
Pro Tip: Build in buffer time for travel and surprises (because there’s always something unexpected!).
10. Share the Details with Your Loved Ones (Optional)
You’re keeping things intimate, but don’t forget to let your close family and friends know the date and time of your elopement so they can join virtually or send their best wishes. If you plan to host a reception later on, let them know what to expect. Some couples love to follow their elopement with a mini reception, whether it’s just the two of you sharing a meal or a small dinner with a handful of guests. A celebratory toast after you say “I do” is the perfect way to end your elopement day.
Lastly, Embrace the Adventure!
Your elopement day is about creating your own meaningful experience, so let go of any stress or expectations. If something doesn’t go exactly as planned (and trust me, it won’t!), that’s okay. What matters most is that you’re marrying the love of your life in a way that feels true to both of you.
Now, take a deep breath, grab your partner’s hand, and get ready for the adventure of a lifetime! It is going to be epic.
